Problems with growing old gracefully

Marriage should be a joyeous occasion celebrated but not for my family. My mom has a mental illness with a perception that the are persons who breaks into her flat to steal some unnecessary items like food, clothing etc and has filed numerous police reports with Bedok Police Station while staying in tampines more than 10 years back. Now she imagines that my wife who is a China national is a prostitude who is only after my money. She imagines I am a useless bum who cannot even hold a decent job. She is paraniod someone will steal all her money and she trusts no-one. She violently abuses my wife and even tries to beat her up, all under my roof which she doesn’t even belong. She has her own 4 room flat in tampines which she derives rental income and could easily afford to rent a room by herself. Instead she choses to bunk with me even though she has another better off son who is a Lecturer in Nanyang Polytechnic(His name is Garry Tan Tek Soon).

“For the word of God [is] quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and [is] a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12
The stone [which] the builders refused is become the head [stone] of the corner.Psalms 118:22

I know all about your selfish nature and is well informed about your objectives. Since you are unwilling to help me or listen to me I shall likewise return to you all your favours. I shall turn my back away from you and leave you to fend for yourself.
Since you have filed a PPO against me, I shall stand up to defend myself on the 21st December 2012 at 2.45pm at Family Court 1. The police has all my reports I have filed including incidents where you have attacked my wife in front of two police officers on Friday 9th December 2012. I am only protecting my wife who you have violently abused to prevent you from hitting her, that is the reason why I lost my temper and hit you on the 8th December 2012. You deserved it and if you violently abused my wife again I will not regret to hit you again even though if it means I will end up in jail. I will show you no mercy since you have disrupted my family and caused me great hardship, no normal thinking mom will abuse her son this way. You have only yourself to blame for this predicment which means the end of our mother-son relationship. I will rather starve than be abused by your money, I do not even want a single cent of your inheritence, you can save it all for charity. Get out of my life since you are only full of yourself.

Verdict : The judge throw out her case because she has “forgotten” to attend court, what about the other claims to DBS Bank that she has “unknowingly” transferrred S$800 to my account by mistake, I am sure a video recording by the atm machine will reveal the truth, or claims that I have fraudently applied for a Singtel line without her knowledge and approval, I am sure Singtel has recorded conversations that is otherwise. What does all these prove? She is not capable of administering her affairs anymore and to the lawyer who is acting on her behalf in drawing out her will, it will definitely be contested. I will definitely apply to the courts to get an independent trustee to administer her estate and bring everyone out of her misery. I do not believe in living in charity when we have the means to be indepedent and self reliable, it is just she is so scared about losing her wealth that she doesn’t want to liquidate her assets, she would rather live life as a begger. 
It is about publicly shameing my own family members who treat money more important than their life even when all of them are very well off, their selfish desires with only cares for their ownself, forgetting about other family members who are less well off during this festive period. After reading this will someone who knows them wake them up to their senses? Even a stranger treats me better than my family members, why should I treat them any better? I would rather leave my family members to join others who will be my brothers and my sisters, and lead a wondering hermit’s life without a permanent home. 
Now she wants to file another PPO against me which will be held on 16th January 2012 at 3.30pm at Family Court 1. I really wonder what is on her mind since she is so paranoid about someone stealing her money that she hides it everywhere then conveniently loses it, not to mention the numerous times she forget about everything. Old age dementia is a big problem especially in her case only thing good is that she still can take care of herself and she appears “normal” but friends advised me that her condition will only get worst until she loses her memory altogether and is unable to walk ie “bedridden” in a couple of years. Does anyone faces the same problems like me?

If you do not move out by the 31st January 2012, I will show you no mercy and will cause even greater problems until you go bankrupt and be forever chased by loansharks for debts more than the assets you have. She has even stole my IC to try to effect a transfer of ownership without my permission of a Mio TV contract and Singtel line even though the contract is not yet matured and she doesn’t want to pay the outstanding bills, using a medical report more than 5 years back from CGH that I have schizophrenia. She has been to see our MP to request for a transfer of HDB rental flat because she says my neighbour is casting witchcraft on her. Such nonsense I have tolerated for more than 8 years but no longer will I tolerate anymore. Very soon, if I am forced to, I will apply for a court order for an independent party to manage her affairs since she is not capable of managing her affairs any longer and put her in a long term care home.

Case no ; 2975/2011 06/02/2012 3pm at Family Court 1.
I do not need any witness or any documentary proof, the public and the police can be my witnesses. But come to think of it, it is your senile mind that is just vending your anger on me and getting a PPO against me serve no purpose, I will never touch you if you ever touch my spouse-to-be and by then you would have already moved out, good riddence to you and may you face hardship and torture like what you have inflicted on me thru your years of nonsense and abuse and you deserve no pity. (Dedicated to my mother Mdm Song Chai Yok) 

– Contributed by Oogle. 

Author: Gilbert Tan TS

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